there are certain things you shouldn't talk about at certain times in front of certain people.
(holy hell i may explode.)
do you know what a handicap is??? do you want one to lean on??? an excuse or a tag to rely on??? that doesn't strike the slaker as appealing. that's really out-of-character for someone.
it's not like it's not okay to talk about your problems but there is a context for that sort of thing you know and that wasn't it.